I'm in the same position, extremely large bust/smaller ribcage (37M/N, which people think can't exist naturally). You may need a smaller wire and have to ease in the proper cup on the underwire line to make the bra work. If the mass of your breast tissue is small at the base but expands just after (similar to a balloon held against a flat surface), you may have an "Omega" shape. I have gotten alot of helpful answers about how to fit this (read: my) type of bust from the Bra Maker's Manual by Beverly Johnson.
You may even need to make the lower cup in more than three pieces. The more seams you have, the finer the fit. The prototype I'm working on didn't give me the lift I desire but when I subtracted width from the other three panels to create/add a fourth panel, everything started to curve up and round out better for my shape (yea no torpedo boob!)
Also try buying, or at the very least taking pictures, of bras you like the end result shaping of. I like the look of
Ewa Michalak bras, especially the CHP and the CH styles. Even though it's a custom designer bra company, I still fall out of the range of their sizing. After studying the pictures and looking at some physically, i was able to see what direction I needed to go in. Plus looking at the fabrics they chose assisted in my being more selective about the fabrics I would use. Fabric makes a difference too.